I AM ME
My Scars on Body & Soul – Strength Through Adversity
Scars as a symbol of strength and resilience
Despite suffering and hardship, my defeats have borne fruit in success. Each scar that adorns my body and soul is proof that we can rise again and start anew. These marks tell stories of struggles and hardships, but also of strength and resilience.
Stories from “Caught in Partner Violence”
As the author of the poetry collection “Caught in Partner Violence,” I acknowledge that our experiences – both good and bad – shape us. The scars we carry are not just symbols of our vulnerability but also of our ability to overcome.
Embracing Our Scars as Part of Our Identity
They remind us that behind each challenge lies the opportunity to rise stronger and more authentically. In this section, I wish to share my journey with you and show how we can embrace our scars as part of our unique identity.
Poems as a Path to Healing and Renewal
My poems are an expression of this process, a celebration of the strength found in being genuine and vulnerable. I invite you to dive into my words and find inspiration to embrace your own experiences and scars.
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My name is Phoebe Toft
My Mission
I aim to create greater awareness around narcissism and the ways it affects our lives. As someone who has personally experienced narcissistic exploitation, I want to help others understand how we can protect ourselves and each other from manipulation and exploitation.
The Strength of Community
We, who tend to see the best in others, are often those who get exploited. But by standing together and practicing self-love, we can find the strength to resist this form of control. Together, we can create a community that supports and protects one another.
Lecture
My Goals
I love attending lectures and inspiring people, especially when I see hope and the spark return to those who have been victims of narcissism. Being able to contribute to their journey toward healing and empowerment means a lot to me.
My Book
I Hope
All participants in our lectures, whether for businesses, crisis centers, or others who are experiencing pain in their lives due to narcissism, receive my book with inspiring poems. Poems that come straight from my heart, written during the hardest time of my life when I struggled with three children by my side.